If a son cannot sleep alone, he may struggle with self-soothing. Furthermore, the mother’s own romantic life is effectively put on hold. It is difficult to date or build a new partnership when your 12-year-old son is taking up the other half of your pillow. Therapists note that the "son-husband" dynamic—where a single mother relies on her son for emotional intimacy usually provided by a partner—is a real and damaging dynamic that bed-sharing can exacerbate.
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As children grow, the conversation around sharing a bed naturally shifts toward independence. While the lifestyle benefits of closeness are clear, experts often suggest a gradual transition to solo sleeping to help children develop self-soothing skills.